Striving

There’s a joke commonly used about woefully underpowered cars: When you put the pedal down it doesn’t go any faster, it just gets louder.

This is how I understand the concept of effort. You create in your mind a feeling of force, or pressure. Maybe you exhaust yourself a bit as proof of work. But that’s it. It has no relation to accomplishment, effectiveness, efficiency. It’s for show, if only to yourself.

You can have that experience of effort without accomplishing anything, though I’m not sure why you’d want to. Or you can do whatever you like without that feeling. If that feeling helps you feel like you’re doing something, by all means, continue. Feeling like you’re doing something isn’t nothing—it’s just not what we’ve been told.

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  1. I really like this analogy. Sometimes it feels like I’m supposed to be working hard although it’s not clear how; for example, someone implies I’m not trying hard enough, but doesn’t specify how, or I don’t get the results that other people do, and I assume I’m somehow not doing enough. For me I think that’s where effort often comes in. I’m going to question that feeling in the future, because pushing harder generally wears me out to no good end.

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